Do men want (and why) women to reach orgasm?

piazolla

Do you care whether she can reach orgasm or not when you are banging a woman?

It's not news that many straight men use women's orgasms as a yardstick with which to measure their own sexual prowess....

Read further on:

http://jezebel.com/5849147/for-ladies-orgasms-its-showing-up-that-counts

dragondick

I have not read contents of your link, i can only speak of my own experience.

The primary objective of intercourse is NOT for personal sexual satisfaction, but for pleasing and satisfying my partner.

When my partner is satisfied, resulting in an orgasm or close to orgasmic reaction, I will be rewarded like-wize.  She will also look forward to & long for another round of memorable experience.

piazolla

dragondick 发表于 2013-4-26 15:31
I have not read contents of your link, i can only speak of my own experience.

The primary objective ...

It's a way to keep your partner to want to mate with you again and again. Also deep down you only want the one who you desire (even just sexually). In that way your sperm will repeatedly go to the partner you want her to breed your off-springs.
Rewarding a desirable partner (a desirable sperm receipent/breeder) is probably why male homo sapiens want their women reach orgasm.
Mating pyschology of primate specy.

poorrich

women to reach orgasm?? isnt that a myth i give up on that and just make myself happy