你的家人/朋友知道你出来玩吗?

iluvbubes2021

I know many people have very conservative views on this kind of thing. I know some of my aunts do, they have zero understanding of it, they probably think all men who see escorts are all like associated with triads lol. curious to know if you have any family/friends who know you see escorts regularly and also what their attitude towards this habit of yours is. I dont have many family/friends to begin with, but the few that I do have I've never told them explicitly, a few non-judgemental ones I've dropped some hints on them such as "I go get massages from attractive young girls regularly" and they've never asked more questions after that.

demon_slayer

My Family members are very conservative. If they ever finds out, probably they will disown me.

Telling friends about this could become a liability.

iluvbubes2021

Telling friends about this could become a liability.

i used to work with a guy who boasted about going to massage parlors and eating pussy. "pussys good" was his motto. he literally shows up to work every time murmuring "pussy pussy pussy" and greeted people with "so, pussys good?" instead of the typical "hows it going?"  he only did that with male peers, never the bosses, and never with female coworkers.

he was the one who introduced me to this sort of thing and got me going to these places. i found out through him that many people at work actually regularly saw escorts. people confessed to him cause he was so open and non-judgemental. out of like 10 people at the workplace i found out that 3 others saw escorts, including one of the supervisors. if you included himself and then me it would be like 5 out of 10 lol its really common

xoxo0008

I feel that it's best to keep it to myself to avoid any potential troubles

站立的龙卷

no, but I always want to find a friend that can share some info,

robin777

在国内我们经常约了朋友同事一起去玩了，公司老板看到月度业绩好还好请客团建

tango_one

In what occusion that we want our network group to acknowledge this hobby? What are the values that we can gain from this action? Are we asking them for mental approval or funding supports? are we asking them not to judge? If there is no positive gain, there is no reason to complicate the condition.

Personally I would keep this hobby to myself

tt69321

ya i keep it to myself even sometimes i heard my friends were talking about it.

matrix9

站立的龙卷 发表于 2024-1-27 13:54
no, but I always want to find a friend that can share some info,

sharing information is very important .
it helps.
depends if you have someone you can chatted to

站立的龙卷

matrix9 发表于 2024-1-28 22:48
sharing information is very important .
it helps.
depends if you have someone you can chatted to

espcially，我这种时间和钱包不是太宽裕的，真怕踩雷