When I first came out to play yes. But just like picking up girls. The more you see and do the less you become nervous and anxious.
These girls are giving you a fantasy, as long as you remember nothing is real. It's easier to enjoy the fantasy and even more enjoyable to play along with it.
No. You should still care about how a girl feels. Don't be a chauvinistic swine. Good feelings come when both are enjoying themselves. Enjoy the sex, foreplay, process and the fantasy. Play along with it and be a part of it. That's how you can easily defeat performance anxiety, and when you find a girl with good chemistry. This process becomes even easier and stronger.
you should have minimum or zero expectation on performance. No need to add pressure on yourself.
Remember you are the customer and you are paying for the session.
发表于 2023-12-25 04:11:48
