为什么在国内被人怼了更容易情绪化？

maximusmonger

我不知道这个是不是只存在与我个人身上还是大家普遍有这种反应。

在国内的时候遇到那种素质不是很高的人了我两句 我会很容易上头。。。比如说有人闯红灯然后骂你走路不长眼睛，或者你在店里不买东西就被人骂没钱就别出来瞎逛之类的话，我的第一反应会很气愤，特别想怼回去。

但是在加拿大遇到SB或者说英语的那种在情绪上反而不会让我有太大的反应。。。一般就回复一个whatever man，或者fuck off 之类的 一笑而过了

这个跟大环境或者文化有关系吗？

天天小

環境不同。加拿大地大人少，生活節奏較慢，整個人都輕鬆很多，不像亞太地區那種日常面對的壓迫感。所以就沒有那麼情绪化。

波匀见日

同意楼上的老哥的观点，除了人多竞争压力大之外。东亚文化整体都是强调应试教育的，因而成长过程中一直都是竞争意识，很少人有合作的精神，也容易让人更容易有攻击性。

asdfasd

因为不敢惹老黑

shagmate

I think it's a culture and upbringing thing.  Since you grew up in China you are very comfortable in that environment and mannerism hence more free to express yourself.
But since English is a second language you are psychologically held back because it's a foreign language and your anger doesn't naturally comes through.

maximusmonger

shagmate 发表于 2022-8-28 22:47
I think it's a culture and upbringing thing.  Since you grew up in China you are very comfortable in ...

except I grew up in Canada, went to school here and lived here most of my life...I think your theory would hold true if I was just visiting or have only been here for a short while.

Perhaps it's a envronmental thing? I do feel that when I'm in North America I am more laid back/chilled out.

Starvo

因為這邊老黑教你做人…

shagmate

Ops, my apologies.  I just ASSumed, my bad.

chessmaster

人是會受四周環境影響情緒的, 如你去了冰島, 你或會比在加拿大時更冷靜, 或者你去了印度, 你或會比在中國時更狂燥.

ezlin

生活节奏快更容易让人急眼吧