有性未愛的生活，是對還是錯？

iHunter · 发表于 2016-7-25 02:54:11

huntersaebaryu 发表于 2016-7-24 23:41
去玩的好處就是這樣
你花錢她服務
你不用管她爽不爽你不用管她高興不高興你不用怕你今天累了滿足不了她

有女友是好，但是也有不好

babyme · 发表于 2016-7-25 05:49:24

One needs both love and sex, in that order.
The two may happen on one person (ie. spouse) or different ones (girl friend/spouse,  one or multiple MM).

One thing should be true that sex is a mutual benefit.  Cannot think of yourself alone.  Females got feelings too, not just a sex object for YOUR pleasure alone if it will last longer than one session.

Trust is the bond for love, not sex. One has to have a feel for the other half, or there is no love.
Lots of Chinese live on different continents married as spouse with separate sex lives (mostly men I think), but there is a bond between them.

Please find your true love and stay with her and care for her.  You will be happy forever in spite of all the conflicts between you two in the future.

iHunter · 发表于 2016-7-25 06:48:07

babyme 发表于 2016-7-25 05:49
One needs both love and sex, in that order.
The two may happen on one person (ie. spouse) or differe ...

Truth is my girlfriend or ex i shall say, our lifestyle is completely different

babyme · 发表于 2016-7-25 07:03:15

iHunter 发表于 2016-7-25 06:48
Truth is my girlfriend or ex i shall say, our lifestyle is completely different

Sometimes opposite attracts.
One might need to compromise or sacrifice, of course if the difference is NOT that great.
Even if sex is the only bond, it could still carry on as long as both understands.
Just like when I am visiting MM (sometime up to 3 a day), I want to have mental feeling if possible in addition to physical. Funny thing is I would not go back if MM had no feeling from me. Most interesting in her physicall feeling than mine.

iHunter · 发表于 2016-7-25 16:00:33

babyme 发表于 2016-7-25 07:03
Sometimes opposite attracts.
One might need to compromise or sacrifice, of course if the differenc ...

Which doesn't work out

tiantianchi · 发表于 2016-8-9 13:34:13

不确定你是什么样的年龄阶段，如果你不到27，你会有这种感觉，当你发现你身边朋友都当爹的时候，你会慢慢发现你生活中缺少了些什么，到那个时候你或许需要一个家，一个陪伴终生的女人。

勿要把你的伴侣看成你性爱的空气，把她看成花，帮她看成水，帮她看成云，当她是花，灿烂绽放的时候，你就是那片绿叶，去衬托她的美丽，当她水自由奔腾的时候，你就是那水里的鱼儿。当她是云自由漂浮的时候，你就是那广阔无垠的天空

把你的伴侣融入你的生活，共同享受，一起思考，携手共进，甚至相濡以沫。当你年迈之时，也会老有所依

用这种思维去看待你的伴侣，那么你就发现你生活中不仅仅存在性爱，而且存在“亲爱”

iHunter · 发表于 2016-8-11 05:42:28

tiantianchi 发表于 2016-8-9 13:34
不确定你是什么样的年龄阶段，如果你不到27，你会有这种感觉，当你发现你身边朋友都当爹的时候，你会慢慢发 ...

我見我朋友的女兒很可愛，但是未有相要的想法

tiantianchi · 发表于 2016-8-11 08:52:49

iHunter 发表于 2016-8-11 05:42
我見我朋友的女兒很可愛，但是未有相要的想法

你更自然，想的开，我现在是看到朋友孩子好可爱，也好像要，但是没找到个好女人

iHunter · 发表于 2016-8-11 11:04:38

tiantianchi 发表于 2016-8-11 08:52
你更自然，想的开，我现在是看到朋友孩子好可爱，也好像要，但是没找到个好女人 ...

可能是；P

xc87494789 · 发表于 2016-9-29 17:58:28

每个人都不一样吧

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