圈里圈外

WILLIAMS

1.每个人生活都有一个小圈子 747（吹水版）是一个虚拟的小圈子
现实生活中的圈子围绕着工友和亲友
要一个人的生活是什么样的 看和他生活在同一个圈子里的人怎样就足够了
不能忽略环境对一个人的影响  有时环境对一个人的影响是决定性的
在一个社会中的主流群体有自己的小圈子 被边缘化的群体也有自己的小圈子
人是群居动物  
有时离群索居是迫不得已 但人类从本性上还是寻求圈子的

2.
有的人更相信自己的感觉 而有的人更相信逻辑和计算
感性和理性是一个对立而统一的duality
有时候我 实在是搞不清 到底是该相信感性还是理性

WILLIAMS

要看一个人的生活是什么样的  typo

mmpleaser

WILLIAMS 发表于 2016-3-11 21:12
要看一个人的生活是什么样的  typo

Got news for you my love.

I have no friends circle or relative circle.  Even when I do have blood or social relationship.  Go to Y EVERYDAY to talk and laugh and exercise when in town.

Only MM circle and 747 circle.
So how do you rate me as a person.

You know birds of the same feather gather together.  
And I have 2 empty nests and more temporary "nests" in Asia.
What do you make out of it.

WILLIAMS

mmpleaser 发表于 2016-3-12 07:32
Got news for you my love.

I have no friends circle or relative circle.  Even when I do have blood ...

That is no good. U need connection anyway

WILLIAMS

mmpleaser 发表于 2016-3-12 07:32
Got news for you my love.

I have no friends circle or relative circle.  Even when I do have blood ...

what is Y? If private , pm
this is called "空巢“ phenomenon in sociology
you need connection and relationship
i need too.
otherwise you cannot go on your life. Like a lonely boat floating on the pacific ocean. You need Love,care hope
you Need meaning in your life

mmpleaser

YMCA. Fitness center with gym and pool.

mmpleaser

You need bottle.  I need NN to serve.

WILLIAMS

mmpleaser 发表于 2016-3-12 20:47
You need bottle.  I need NN to serve.

No
NN in chinese means grandma 阿婆
in case admin bro see your "NN"
we know you mean grandma etc

This is called social isolation and ostracism ,
extremely serious issue
need help

mmpleaser

No I love only my NN grandma.
Never drunk visiting my NN.

WILLIAMS

mmpleaser 发表于 2016-3-12 20:57
No I love only my NN grandma.
Never drunk visiting my NN.

you are 雷锋好榜样 ,
I find your post about "observation of China "very interesting
you are really a observant guy
not too emotional