would u trust an escort?

turnipman

So i met this girl about a year ago.  i was her regular.  after awhile we went out as friends.   a few months back she came back, stayed at my place, but nothing happened (we just went out with now mutual friends...none of which knows about her previous jobg6).  

she asked me to go to korea and stay with her this xmas.

a) would u go?
b) other than getting a canadian passport, what other motives could.she have?

asuran

It can be anything.

Being Chinese myself, I know that we tend to prepare/think of the worst outcomes.

Who knows, maybe she genuinely like being friends with you. You will have to use your intuition.
MM are humans and they need and have friends as well.

You also have to think, what do you, yourself want out of this relationship?
Weigh down the pros and cons and approach cautiously. Protect yourself while keeping an open mind.

You can apply this to almost anyone, people you work with, you went to school with. Do you trust them? Same method, use your people skills and intuition.

We cannot say that all MM are bad people or all wolves are bad family man. There are bad ones, but there are also good ones.
Take the risk and hope for the best, or don't take the risk and stay completely safe.

turnipman

dating her would.be a dream, but i am not sure i can trust an MM just as i cant trust myself not to see another MM.  FYI she has mentioned that she onows that i hobby, but never wants to know about it nor do we ever talk about her old.job.

asuran

a) Would I go?
-It really depends on how I feel about her.

b) what other motives?
-Get you there, use you like bank machine
-Get you there to show off to her friends/family
-Get you there to kidnap you (are you a wealthy person? LOL)

Just plan, prepare and protect yourself.
If you go make sure your bank accounts are safe, move your money around so only a set amount is available during your trip.
If you have multiple credit cards, only bring one or two with set limits.

Take pictures of your passport/ID and e-mail them to yourself. In case you get robbed or lost them you can show the pictures from your e-mail to the authorities as a back up. They will contact embassy for you.

Let someone know where you are going, who you are going with and when you are back.

This is how I would do it if I decide to go.

88bb141

book your ticket, call her in Nov and tell her you lost your job due to downsizing.

tell you still really want to spend time with her, but your budget is now only 1500 per month and if that will be an issue?

if you sense her 'tone' or attitude changing, then don't go there.  consider the lost airfare as a hedge or you can buy trip cancellation insurance.

if she still wants to see you, then have fun banging 2x daily and getting bbbjcim 3x a day.  make her moan and beg for more if your skills are up to par...lol

at the end of your trip tell her you have a small chance of being relocated to the middle east for 1-2 years...see how her body language and over all attitude is within the following 72 hours....if she reduces her bbbjcim from 3x a day to less than 2x a day...it is time to abort this relationship

88bb141

88bb141 发表于 2015-9-13 23:30
book your ticket, call her in Nov and tell her you lost your job due to downsizing.

tell you still  ...

if she passes all the hoops maybe you need to try the final test.

pm me when she arrives in back in town.  you give me 1000 and i will offer her 1000 for hh of conversation

if she declines to have an english lesson with me you can proceed with getting more serious and you can consider the gift of 1000 to me a valuable investment into your future happiness.

if she accepts my 1000 for english lessons then i would think twice about anything too serious with this student.  i would just enjoy it while it last and approach it with the right attitude till this thing explodes (mind the pun)

asuran

LOL 88 gor!!

A bit rough but that's one way to deal with it.


When OP started talking about trust, I'm assuming he is currently not paying for anything and is just friends with her.

mmpleaser

asuran 发表于 2015-9-13 23:05
It can be anything.

Being Chinese myself, I know that we tend to prepare/think of the worst outcome ...

Man, we both learn from our upbringing:
"A mind to hurt people should not exist,  but one does need to protect oneself just in case"
Hong Kong education system under British rule is still OK la.

mmpleaser

Sir,
You already took the first step in your trust of this MM.  Let her staying at your place.  That is A LOT OF TRUST.  You have all the valuables and info about your finances there.  She could have rob you blind.

Going to Korea for Xmas is a vacation.  Just a plane ticket (cheap now), and some spending money.  I take it she is going to return the favor by letting you to stay with her there (no hotels needed).  How can anyone force you to marry her and get a Canadian citizenship and share your wealth?    I do see an issue if you are going to N. Korea, you could be executed.   Follow your heart and free your mind from the worries.  You DID trust her.  This is not a regular Escort you just met.

mmpleaser

Can I add your allowing MM to stay with you as a post in my other post?????
You know you visited a MM too many times when she is staying with you.