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发表于 2024-2-25 16:55:37
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I got one lmao
1st girl that I regularly saw. A Si Chuan Chinese girl. Extremely popular at the time. Which was year 2018.
Since I was a total noob, I fell into that trap of getting my feelings involved in our business relationship. She manipulated the fuck out of that and gaslit me all the time. Obviously for more money, and at times just pure attention for herself as she was a total sociopath. Fast forward the year, she supposedly ran off with some guy back to China to get married. I moved on with my life.
Randomly 2 years later, I get a bunch of missed phone calls and her roommate which was also one of her good working friends. Had also contacted me (had her on wechat, but I only saw her 1 time and she is extremely professional. She will not play with your emotions). Through her friend she managed to get in contact with me. The missed calls I had no idea it was her. I was just busy at work so I didn't pick up the calls. I ended up getting in contact with her, and she said she misses me blah blah blah and wanted to meet up in person. So I said why don't I take you and your friend to dim sum tomorrow? We can catch up. We schedule time and I told her I will call her next day before we go.
Next day, phone is dead (either blocked me or off) I'm like wtf... so I ask her friend. Her friend was like I don't know, I only helped her get jn contact with you and that's it. I told her I think she's wasting my time and gaslightjng me again. Her friend even said yeah don't waste your time. Just let her reach out back to you. 3 days later she called me back. Apologized saying she drank too much, kept sending me pics of all these empty bottles of alcohol she drank. And I'm like okay, sure whatever. I still give her benefit of the doubt. We organize another time to meet. Come that time. she does the exact same thing with the phone. So I texted her don't waste my time, if you don't actually want to get together. Didn't hear from her for about another year and a half.
Then the next time she tries to reach out, it was through a random account on wechat trying to add me. I accepted it out of curiosity. And right away she starts off with "I miss you, are you married?".
Fuck my face went fire red, I was having a good day that day and I got immediate pissed 0 to 120 in 1 second. I respond "Who are you?. She responds "It's the woman you love most, are you married? I miss you!". I immediately told her to "Fuck off and never contact me again". She responds "You're married. You must be married. I'm sorry. Forgive me." I respond "Contact me again, and next time it's the police". And then I delete abd block this account.
Fast forward maybe another yearish? Around early 2022. I suddenly get random DMs on my IG. Starts off with "Hey, are you married?". I opened the message within 5 mins or so and then left it on read. Hopefully that's enough indication to stop contacting me. Seems like it worked. I stopped hearing from this crazy bitch.
But yeah i basically constitute this as stalking. She was a great teacher in her own way, because she was a terrible fucking person. I learned lots from that. |
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