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Over the past year or so I've taken a hiatus from hunting and seldom log on to AZN747. Instead I tried searching for a sugar baby with very little success. Today I want to share with you guys my experience with Seeking Arrangements.
Just to give some background about myself. I'm a typical Asian immigrant living in Toronto. Straddling the border between a young guy and a middle age guy. I wouldn't call myself handsome but I do take care of my appearance, work out often, and dress nicely. I make a pretty decent income and drive an E class. I'm saying all this not to brag or anything, but just to give some context for you guys when I tell you about my experiences.
So about 2 years back I broke up with my significant other. After hunting quite a bit I realized that I wasn't getting satisfied. A lot of times I would step on landmines, and even when the MM was good, there was still something that seemed missing. A connection, perhaps.
I decided to try finding a sugar baby. Or 包養 in Chinese. I've heard good things about it. Especially in the media it sounded so great. Or so I thought. In retrospect, I should have known better than to trust the media. Those bastards exaggerate and lie even more than keepers. I guess they don't really care about the truth, all they want are sensational stories that gets attention.
The media reported that unbelievably large numbers of college and university students were sugar babies. What's more, it made it sound like the cost of keeping a sugar baby was quite affordable. Basically just help her pay their tuition, and you have a young attractive girl who will act as your girlfriend and exclusively serve your sexual needs. It sounded too good to be true.
So I registered an account, and since the free version severely restricted access, I paid for the premium account.
After dutifully putting together my profile, I started looking at the girls available. Here are the broad categories of girls I found.
Type 1 - The girls you basically screen out. Seriously, there are a lot of FUGLY girls looking for sugar daddies. I don't know where they get their confidence from. I mean, judging from a lot of these profile pics, I wouldn't fuck them even if it was free.
Type 2 - The girls with such ridiculous conditions that I would be insane to even consider. For example, $10-20k a month, plus a downtown condo for her private use, occasional trips and gifts (sometimes they even give you a list to choose from with names like Hermes and Chanel), and so on. Basically they want you to provide them with Paris Hilton's lifestyle. And these girls aren't necessarily super hot or anything. The kicker is, they all declare that they are "not prostitutes" and want "to be treated with respect", which basically means that they are even worse than whores because they lure you in with their sex appeal, take your money, and withhold the right to deny you sex.
Type 3 - Whores. Yes, that is right. Whores. These are the ones that let you know they are ok with sex. Of course they don't call themselves whores, and some will even try to tell you explicitly that they aren't whores. But they all are. What's worse is that they charge you 2-3x more than they would if you found them through agencies. How do I know this? Well of the 10+ girls I've hooked up and actually had sex with, I'm pretty sure all of them are sex trade professionals. You can tell by how comfortable she acts and the routine-like sex that you are just another one of her customer. I won't mention names, but some of them I subsequently bumped when I inadvertantly booked them through agencies. Of course, they always have a story to explain. Usually they say that they are desperate for tuition money and its their first time or even first day working for the agency, and that back when I met them through Seeking Arrangements they haven't worked for the agency yet. Some are more creative with their stories. In the end, I don't really mind that these hookers try to pose as students to find customers, except the doubling or tripling of the price is just wrong. One would assume the price should be lower without the middleman, but no, the price actually goes up. Way up.
Type 4 - Real students. Forget about sex with these ones. They expect $3000-6000 a month just for spending time with you (please note that this is just for time, not sex, not even sexual touching allowed). Some will tell you flat out that they won't even consider sex at all. Not now, not ever. These are the honest ones and at least I respect their upfrontness. Others will try to tell you that they are good girls and so they need to feel comfortable with you first before they will consider having sex. These are the bitches to avoid. Unless you are fine with just dinner and movie dates holding hands and nothing else. Sex when they feel comfortable means never. Even after a couple of dates and they still need "a little more time". And if you try to push for sex they will get upset and accuse you of not respecting her. Their definition of respect is us men be obligated to hand over our hard earned cash while they have no obligations whatsoever to do anything they don't feel like doing. Its like sitting down at a restaurant, having to pay first, but the restaurant doesn't have to serve you any food.
Type 5 - Dummy accounts. These are the profiles with attractive photos, appealing self descriptions, and not too demanding requirements. They will exchange messages with you once in a while and act interested, yet you will never meet them in person. These are dummy accounts controlled by the website to keep you staying there and continue paying their monthly fee.
There you have it. The 5 types of females you meet when looking for a sugar baby. Technically, #5 doesn't count, they may not even be female. I remember another similar website called Ashley Madison got busted publicly when some of their former employees sued the company and provided proof of fraud. These employees were hired to churn out new female profiles and everyday, and to pose as those female profiles to answer messages sent to them by horny men. I'm sure Seeking Arrangements does the same.
The take away is this. The pool of actual students (or young girls I should say since I don't really mind if they dropped out of school) isn't nearly as many as the media presents. I'm willing to bet that the media's source is actually provided by Seeking Arrangement website owner who wants free advertising so more men will sign up with them. Most if not all the actual legit girls/students will not be willing to have sex. Its strictly innocent date time for money. The rest are professional whores pretending to be classy ladies. Here's a tip. Usually if a profile says classy, she ain't. In fact, the more she tries to emphasize how classy she is, the more certain she is to be a cheap whore.
So now after a year of dealing with Type 3's and 4's, I am now calling it quits. It just isn't worth the time, effort, and the money. I went into this thinking it would be easy. I also thought I was doing pretty well. I mean, how many people can afford to spend a couple thousand dollars of after-tax income like this? Sure there are many rich guys out there, some who has big businesses, and others who have rich parents, but still being able to splurge 5 grand a month ain't bad. Unfortunately, a lot of girls, either due to ignorance or greed, simply don't think 5 grand is a lot. Make an offer of anything less than, and they think you are cheap. To this date, I haven't met any girl who was a legit student and was willing to be a sugar baby for just the cost of her tuition.
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