发现男朋友一直在hunting该怎么办 ?

mmpleaser

baobaoqinqin 发表于 2015-9-21 00:09
Definitely not...
We were living together for a period time and I found out that he was hunting du ...

By frequency, I do not mean how many time a day, but whether you are available when needed.  But you said that your time together is "just a little" and that was my concern.  Now as you lived together , but then NOT again, wonder why.
Like Bro lovetosex mentioned that reason for NOT hunting is "time, money and health" is quite accurate.  I saw something like that in Wechat too.
I assume that you both are young (less than 30) and sexual desires are quite strong.  I was interested in going to strip club even during lunch hour at work, part of the reason I worked on the Boring job to do so.
May be his love for you is not that strong as you to him (since you will not break up).  May be he will get over this hunting stage.  To be honest, I did not go further than strip club was due to 2 other reasons:  Money and availability of MM.
With house and kids to feed, I could NOT afford to do so, money was tight.  Also, I did NOT know where to get MM.  TO is really an Adult Disney to me as I have been saying in last 2 months on this site.  Never hunt in my life until then.  Initially was worried about getting disease or what the process is (still experimenting as you can see in  my posts).  While I am here, tried to make up for the lost time by hunting up to 3 times a day, mostly one a day.

I wonder if it may help your situation if you AGAIN live together and live in a small town without the temptation of MM being so accessible (one phone call away).  Why do you think they would not want the Casinos within Metro?
Anyway, once you two have a house and baby to look after, money will be tight and free time will be less.  But then you two will be in the next step of your journey together (Marriage).  Are you willing to trust him to get this over as he grows up.   Now if he is rich, that is a different story, cause he can do anything with his wealth.

He should consider himself lucky that you love him so much.  Is it because he is a well qualified KuoKuo?  Notice that he was NOT looking for a relationship in other girls as he just went for MM.  One hour encounter only and most likely different one each time.

baobaoqinqin

mmpleaser 发表于 2015-9-21 02:50
By frequency, I do not mean how many time a day, but whether you are available when needed.  But y ...

Dont understand what you mean by Kuokuo....
Money is not his concern and it probly never will be. Yes, he is wealthy, but so am I.
I dont really need a man for any financial reason.

We will never leave Toronto, which makes it impossible to be inaccessible to hookers.

So he will always have the time and wealth if he wants to go for it. The only thing that could be changed is his wellingness to go.
But based on whatever you guys said, the wellingness might never go away...

lovetosex

well, thousands of years is like that, most men have more than 1 wife in the old days. whatever the culture is the same! without girl friend, he may even hunt more! how old is he?

mmpleaser

baobaoqinqin 发表于 2015-9-21 11:26
Dont understand what you mean by Kuokuo....
Money is not his concern and it probly never will be.  ...

KuoKuo opposite of MeiMei (brother and sister for boyfriend girlfriend, sorry probably spell it wrong).

mmpleaser

baobaoqinqin 发表于 2015-9-21 11:26
Dont understand what you mean by Kuokuo....
Money is not his concern and it probly never will be.  ...

You read a lot of stories that when a loving couple was poor, they had a good loving relationship,  when he gets rich, he is going to find another "better" mate.  That is the sad story.  Money could cause a lot of evil things.  In your case, money is there , no way to stop it unless love is REALLY strong.

mmpleaser

Actually, MONEY is the root cause of hunting game as far as I am concerned (again, a newbie for 2 months, really 20 days in 2 months).
Why do you think that we have all these MM (Chinese, Korean, etc) available.  Most are from outside of Canada.  The reason they got involved is due to Poverty.  China, mainly from Rural villages who got no other ways of making a good living.  No one would want to do this dirty but easy job for a living, just like Filipino, Indonesian maids working in HK being abused for hard work.  Now we the hunter got extra money to blow and therefore can get the MM to do what we want unfortunately.  Kind of spread the wealth. Currently MM in TO are making 10 times Min wage and that is very good money.  So it is hard to kill off the supply and if your boyfriend is rich, there is no way to kill off the demand either unless he is REALLY in love with you.  Money is the ISSUE.  

lovetosex

無錢甚么都不成！如果你男友無錢就没有問题！本人認識的生意朋友！差不多所有人都有玩！看開點！好過包二奶！

mmpleaser

lovetosex 发表于 2015-9-21 21:17
無錢甚么都不成！如果你男友無錢就没有問题！本人認識的生意朋友！差不多所有人都有玩！看開點！好過包二奶 ...

Let us all be poor and will be a lot happier.

baobaoqinqin

lovetosex 发表于 2015-9-21 11:27
well, thousands of years is like that, most men have more than 1 wife in the old days. whatever the  ...

28.
well... true. but I don't think many ppl can accept it now.

baobaoqinqin

lovetosex 发表于 2015-9-21 21:17
無錢甚么都不成！如果你男友無錢就没有問题！本人認識的生意朋友！差不多所有人都有玩！看開點！好過包二奶 ...

其实包养了我也不知道啊。