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Ok I know I know... its kinda dumb to even ask. Most guys of course hate clock-watchers. If you'll bear with me though, I'm here to explain why I support clock-watching and think its the right thing to do.
Not too long ago, a good friend of mine got into a very unhappy situation with an MM due to the issue of clock-watching (or lack thereof).
Basically he went wayyyy overtime. Of course he was having the time of his life and the thought that time is up and he needs to leave is totally forgetten. On the other hand, the MM being inexperienced as she was, and try hard to please the customer, didn't remind him that time was up. She merely thought that at the end of the session the customer would simply pay her for the amount of time he stayed. Needless to say, things turned ugly.
So here's the problem.
The MM is obviously performing a service and is being paid by time. She is not giving us GFE because she is really our GF, she is doing it because we are paying her for it. So if the customer is only paying for half an hour's worth of work, it is unfair to expect her to be a good sport and give us more than what we paid for. If it was the other way around, most of us wouldn't be willing either.
From the customer's perspective, we hate being reminded that time is up because it spoils the moment. A buddy of mine always says, everybody wants to feel special. In our minds, we want to pretend the MM is really enjoying the time with us, and that its not just a cold harsh transaction of money for service. Clock-watching breaks that fantasy and that is why we hate it.
So who is going to keep track of time? No matter whether the MM watches the clock, or the keeper calls up to tell the MM that time is up, the customer is going to hate it. On the other hand, the customer cannot be counted on to keep track of time either. To be sure there will be some honest and disciplined gentlemen wolves out there, but most will be more than happy to overstay the session.
When we read reviews and discuss here about clock-watchers, most bros are unanimous in their dissatisfaction with clock-watching. I think this is because when most bros think about clock-watching, we envision ourselves as the guy upstairs having fun with the MM, obviously we don't want to be rushed out. But I think most of us, if we've been hunting for long enough, has also been in the situation where we have arrived on time for our booking, and waiting outside in -20 degree weather freezing our ass off, and pissed as hell at the keeper for keeping us waiting. We should actually be blaming the MM for not clock-watching.
I think until there is an industry-wide standard practice where the customer automatically pays extra for additional time stayed, clock-watching should be expected and even encouraged. I for one don't want to the one kept waiting downstairs because the bastard in front of me is too cheap to pay for 45 minutes despite knowing he needs more than half an hour to come.
What do you guys think about this?
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发表于 2015-3-23 00:44:51
