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发表于 2014-9-9 22:25:22
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I have read all the comments carefully and slowly not once but twice, every single one of them! Obviously, i can't reply to each one of them individually. I have pretty much made up my mind, i guess i just need some encouragement and reinforcement from wolf brothers and friends. Most of u know that I have known sweetie for over a year now, but we have only dated seriously for 6 months. A lot of things happened in these 6 months that change my foundational philosophy, the way i view life including morals, values..etc. I can't deny the fact that this trip plays an influential role of me determining to give up all the girls for sweetie. I don't think i was distracted by the commotion of this vacation; in fact, this trip allows me to focus and think deeply how important she is to me. I am willing to jeopardize the inheritance money from tiger mom just to be with her. I am willing to sacrifice my own happiness and kill my inner wolf just to be with her. I told tiger mom that maybe i don't know what's love, i don't fully understand the meaning of commitment and marriage. But i know if sweetie sheds a tear, i won't smile and have a poker face for hours. I know if sweetie isn't eating, i won't either. I know if i dont see her or hear her voice for more than just a few hours, i get paranoid, i get anxious. Everything she does or says heavily and directly influences me. She is a girl that doesn't want anything superficial from me and would jump off the bridge for me blindfolded. Sometimes I envy her that she can trust and devote herself entirely to someone like me. I didn't sleep at all last night, i watched her sleep for the entire night. And i am happy i made the decision i made few days ago. She was supposed to fly out, but i had to postpone the flight for her, so she could go home with me together. I can not stand a day without her, a day without her smile, her voice, and toronto isn't the safest city. I came to peace with tiger mom. If she doesn't accept sweetie, she is not going to have her grand-kids in her arms. I made myself clear and showed no room for negotiation. Tiger mom is nicer to sweetie now, not as obnoxious as before. One personality trait really helps her along the way is her super sincere attitude. She doesn't play mind games, she doesn't manipulate, she doesn't try to deceive to please. For business woman like tiger mom really appreciates this particular personalty trait of sweetie's. Besides, she is super cute, who doesn't like super cute brunettes. ok.. i should go take a nap, get some shuteye. Taking sweetie to meet other relatives in other cities later this afternoon and announce the good news, hope all goes well. Thank u guys for all the meaningful comments, especially to those new wolves that i barely know. |
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楼主: happypooning
发表于 2014-9-9 20:12:30
