Outcome of "sinking-boat"

rpm6969

Go to lawyer before you get marry if you are worry about wealth and $$

Like  theone  bro says
If u guys love each other and have total trust
Is natural to get marry

Shit happen, ppl divorce. No one can predict the future . You make the best decision at the time

Good luck sir

theone

happypooning 发表于 2013-11-15 20:31
the older i get, the bigger chicken i become, it's almost like my balls shrink as i age. i worry a ...

If I plan to spend my rest of my life with her , I am willing to share everything with her that of course included my asset .
But when we made decision about who we should be our life long partner , we are not child we should know how to chose . Yeah things happened so that is life , destiny. , so let it be again . That is my opinion . Marriage is something I strongly against . The wing , the piece of paper really mean that much ?

7samurai

You need to know thyself  and be honest with yourself  marriage is right for you.    Most people convince themselves or its the natural thing to do due to lonelines, age, societal, cultural, social or  family pressures.     No guarantees in life.  I know couples who were madly in love since university/high school and divorced.  I know couples where one had doubts at the wedding alter and divorced 10 years later with kids.  

Whether you marry a mm, professional or house wife.  Sex and life naturally becomes a dull mundane routine.  Like eating potatoes every day? :lol

tossamond

7samurai 发表于 2013-11-15 23:19
You need to know thyself  and be honest with yourself  marriage is right for you.    Most people con ...

Like eating potatoes every day?

You are offending people in England. Potato is their biggest heritage from their cook history ;P

chef123

I can't answer your survey.  It's between 3-4.

Transition from 3 to 4 is a long period and also a very painful process.  Why would she quit?  She "needs" money for a good reason.  And most of them also "want" this money support their lifestyle.  Unless you go all the way to 5, it's not easy for them to quit.

MM can love you, but also continue to work to earn money.  It's too much for MM to give up.  The younger ones (<25) would probably give up their MM job, because they are young and don't care about the future.  The older ones are smarter about money, and want some guarantee for future.

I love her.  But I am not able to offer her a future.  She said she loves me.  But she can't quit her MM job.  She never asked me for anything.  When I tried to take a step forward, she ran away because she didn't understand what I was thinking.  She tried to get back closer, and I was uncertain.  The situation was stuck, and our relationship was in some limbo state.  Sink boat is not like friendship which can last forever.  And sink boat is 10x more complex than a normal marriage.  

rpm6969

damn chef123

you guys still keep in touch? or complete cut off

7samurai

chef123 发表于 2013-11-16 00:11
I can't answer your survey.  It's between 3-4.

Transition from 3 to 4 is a long period and also a v ...

What you describe is definitely not love.   True Love is unconditional.  Like a man's best friend.  A dog. :lol

chef123

7samurai 发表于 2013-11-16 00:49
What you describe is definitely not love.   True Love is unconditional.  Like a man's best friend. ...

there is no clear definition of true love.
i love her, but i also love her

too bad today's society doesn't allow multiple wives.  :P

chef123

rpm6969 发表于 2013-11-16 00:19
damn chef123

you guys still keep in touch? or complete cut off

well, sort of.  she's married now.

she hasn't unfriend me, and i haven't unfriend her.  I just can't click that link...too hard to press the mouse button...

najup

沉船真的很痛苦，很痛苦。

痛并快乐着，就是沉船的真实写照。