happypooning 发表于 2013-11-15 20:16
but mm needs reassurance, a real commitment, mm usually feels insecure, was afraid one day someone ...
If they like security then give half what ever you own to her or under her name . Marriage for our Chinese man is not just two people , it is two family , much much more complicated . No rush a step at a time a Chinese word is , 水到渠成。let it be , just follow your heart . Marriage will made thing much much more complicate . Just let it be .
theone 发表于 2013-11-15 20:26
If they like security then give half what ever you own to her or under her name . Marriage for o ...
i usually follow my heart...but result is not pleasant..i would say 8/10 i get burnt. considering my age, i want to be rational. making a logical decision rather than "follow my heart" which is usually a emotional decision.. but if u give half of ur wealth...what if. she runs away, its a big gamble
theone 发表于 2013-11-15 20:26
If they like security then give half what ever you own to her or under her name . Marriage for o ...
the older i get, the bigger chicken i become, it's almost like my balls shrink as i age. i worry a lot, i am very skeptical and paranoid. half of the wealth, would u really do it, or are u just saying it???
happypooning 发表于 2013-11-15 20:28
i usually follow my heart...but result is not pleasant..i would say 8/10 i get burnt. considering ...
If both still in the stage of not trust each other why marriage . I trust her , I love her , and I believe she love me . So I give half of mine to her . And I am confident about our relationship then I will do things like this . Is that a commitment stronger then a piece of paper . Is that made her more secure than a wedding wing with a pre marriage acknowledgement .
theone 发表于 2013-11-15 20:32
If both still in the stage of not trust each other why marriage . I trust her , I love her , and ...
i look at it differently.. since there is not 100% trust yet.. maybe marriage that piece of paper will put both parties at ease. marriage will allow an opportunity for the couple to trust each other 100%. the fact that not willing to get married is a perfect demonstration that lack of trust... idk...if i know, this poll/survey is not necessary
Marriage is a part of business yet giving you half of wealth you own is somewhat i can't agree.
There are many better ways to hold healthy relationship rather giving her half of your fortune.
More over, the idea is just as bad as buying MM for a night. If a lady can only feel safe&ease by holding half of you own then i don't see a difference between marriage and hobbying
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