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发表于 2014-3-17 02:30:52
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Here was my intended reply. (Ben my last reply to this important public health topic)
motor 发表于 2014-3-14 14:36
1) I never said I wouldn't fall in love again. I just don't think it's possible for me to fall in ...
Dude are you are playing dum with me?
You just stated you can't fall in love with someone you can't fuck. It's a circular argument. I said "don't you care about the impact of catching STD and transmitting it to someone you love in future ?" And then you counter hedged "but I can't fall in love with someone you didn't fuck. So if you catch STD while hobbying then the probabilities will be high you won't fucking your future princess at all.
2) If I get sick, I will cross that bridge when I come to it. Not there yet. But even if it happens, there are still plenty of women with manageable STDs that I could fall in love with, right? Many, many people have them. Some find love. Some don't. Just as in the disease-free community.
You say it with such bravado and nonchalance LIKE catching the common cold. Wait till you catch incurable STD. And fall in love with the princess who is clean.
(To Jason )Let me say again that I sincerely appreciate your response, but my attitude is NOT "it is just a matter of time before I catch some incurable STD." And I am not treating this potential threat as nothing more concerning than a common cold. If I were, then my attitude would be, "So what?" A cold is simply a bother, an interruption of normal life, not a potentially life-altering event. No one says, "I will cross that bridge when I come to it" over something as minor as the common cold. Precisely because a cold is not a big deal. An STD is. I know that. My attitude towards these matters is emphatically not one of basic indifference or nonchalance. I am not saying, "So what?" I am saying, "If I have to deal with that misfortune, I will. And I will reassess my life if that happens. But I don't want it to occur at all."
I see my attitude as stoic acceptance of an undesirable but still possible outcome. In short, I am saying that I know I could get hurt. And while I do not welcome that possibility in the slightest, I am also not blind to it either. When a baseball player goes out on the field, it is possible (however unlikely) that he could break his arm today. Likewize, when a driver gets in his car, it is possible (however unlikely) that he could lose his life today. Are the baseball player or the driver inviting disaster or saying they don't care about their own well-being? No. Not at all. Well, neither am I when I go hunting. I am cautious. I know what signs to look for. But yes, it could happen that I miss something or that I contract something in spite of my best efforts. I recognize that as a possibility, and I accept it mindfully and stoically.
Am I trying to persuade anyone that they should adopt a similar mindset? No, it just happens to be mine. Some people drive defensively. I like to hunt somewhat defensively, but obviously I still like to enjoy my time on the road too.
Do you realize you continuously contradict yourself? You couch your answers very well with acknowledging my specific concerns raised. Then you throw things in you don't even realize that weakens your point.
I'm going to take liberty paraphrasing your latest response to Jason. . You say "you care." But do you really care? Not really. Because in your words shit happens in life like your simplistic and ridiculous baseball player and driving risk analogy? This is suppose to be akin to the risk of catching std by knowingly every week paying to fuck mms who rim, cim, bbbj and dfk to every bro 10x per day?
But you are willing to take chances cause YOU like to have fun sometimes. And if shit happens you will stoically deal with the consequences when it happens. The irony is you in another review thread you specifically asked about CIM. Your and many other bros /mm intended actions lead to unintended consequences. Do you think every bro or mm knowingly and purposely passes std around? Some don't even know it because symptoms sometimes don't even appear at all with some bros/mm or until months later. There goes your argument about being diligent. So yeah you are nonchalant and incredibly naive about this topic. No I don't know you but I do know human foibles, psyche, behaviour, motivations and patterns. Maybe there are sinners who are unknowingly sheep walking into slaughter ? :lol
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