747 Position Statement (regarding ethnicities of members)

poorrich

"we may be broke and ugly"

You talking about me

Ben2009

poorrich 发表于 2013-5-28 14:26
"we may be broke and ugly"

You talking about me

I was talking about myself. I'm the ugliest. 唔好同我爭呢個位.

dragondick

面醜，JJ 靚嘛得嘮!  

7samurai

DragonKiller 发表于 2013-5-28 11:02
No offense to the writer who posted the thread :"Should all races be able to join sex747?", as far a ...

No Offense taken.       The purpose of the poll  was to stimulate discussion and bring out different POVs from different camps.    I felt there was an undercurrent of resentment by the ASIAN ONLY Camp.   The best way to break down walls is to have a constructive dialogue so every can hear different point of views and respectful dialogue with NO NAME Calling.    Camps don't have to accept the different comments but they can at lease respect and appreciate it.

I believe my post achieved the desired objective to bring concerns out in the open and hear different opinions which other camps never thought of.    And if you noticed and read the prior post comments the issues are about differences in POV of asian beauty, scoring points , menu expectations, tone in civility of discussion and the level  trolling/shilling/fights.  

7samurai

dmoses 发表于 2013-5-28 09:08
I like this board and when I contribute I keep my reviews fair and honest and I try to let people kn ...

Dmoses you have exemplified a hunter who provides a balance and fair review of MMs irregardless of race.   You are consistent on both forums in terms of tone and civility.   NO BS hyping and back slapping pumping of posts like others who have a split personality and agendas depending on which forum they post.  

I salute you!  Respect for a gwailo.   Keep up the good reviews.   

DragonKiller

Ben2009 发表于 2013-5-28 14:23
Dragonkiller, you are welcome to speak your mind.

You are entitled to your opinion that the 747 p ...

Ben, I appreciate your honesty that you believe in pragmatism and it is what it is even though it might be discriminatory.   

Personally, I find this topic offensive because I'll be offended if I see a post on the other forum openly discuss if Chinese should be allowed to participate.  Anyway, thanks for taking your time to address my questions.

DragonKiller

7samurai 发表于 2013-5-28 16:50
No Offense taken.       The purpose of the poll  was to stimulate discussion and bring out diff ...

I think we are walking a very line here.  As stated in my response to Ben that openly discussing a sensitive topic like this might be offensive to others.  

Apoc

Ben2009 发表于 2013-5-28 13:54
Well obviously we can be pretty sure that those that post in Chinese are Chinese. Doesn't have to b ...

Originally posted by Ben2009:
"Nor do I believe your claim that you are Chinese."

如果我不是中國人，那麼我是誰？

不要聽任何人胡說八道.

Thank You.

7samurai

DragonKiller 发表于 2013-5-28 17:53
I think we are walking a very line here.  As stated in my response to Ben that openly discussing a ...

Of course it's a fine a line.  It's a taboo topic that needs to be addressed head on openly with sensivity and respect.  And I think a majority of posters handled themselves very well.  In fact it open my eyes and I learnd a different POV which I never thought of.   We are all adults here aren't we?   Now if a similar in vein poll was posted on the red board I'm sure sparks would have ignited and ended in flames

I think understanding each others POV will help set the tone of reviews to manage expectations.   For example I'm a CBC and when I was  a prolifc reviewer  in another asian forum (before Ben started this one and Ben was a member)  many asia borned bros thought my reviews were over scored on facial beauty or even body.    I learned to be sensitive to their tastes to not mislead them and at times stated up front this possible risk and I  recalibrated my scoring to manage expectations.    I adapted.

Many thought I was a shill because I visited a downtown shop often because it was convenient.  So I made the effort to expand my horizons and hunted at many variety of shops and even tried the asian bro proferred MMs.    I adapted   

Many thought I was BS Shill reviewer because I had such good mileage with MMs.   But once some  bros made friends with me and they  learned there are ways to connect with MMs and have a great sessions without review bribes, threats or throwing alot of money  or giving crazy expensive gifts.     I educated

This is called making an effort to better understand board and asian bro culture.    Respect and Adapt.     But at the same time I do challenge conventional asian bro culture.   I get away with it because they know me since the humble beginnings of Sex747 and the other asian  forum.    They adopted the CBC      

Ben2009

Apoc 发表于 2013-5-28 18:08
Originally posted by Ben2009:
"Nor do I believe your claim that you are Chinese."

You proved you know how to use Google translate. LOL

Here's a tip for you, an actual Chinese would not talk nor type in such a rigid textbook format.

Lemme say it one last time, non-Chinese are welcomed as long as they contribute meaningfully. Its not necessary to masquerade as one of us.